Thursday, December 25, 2014

PARSHAS VAYIGASH 5775



“RABBI’S MUSINGS (& AMUSINGS)”
Erev Shabbos Kodesh Parshas Vayigash
4 Teves 5775/ December 26, 2014
      
This week the Monsey community was faced with an epic catastrophe. Here it was, the middle of the Chanukah, and there were no chocolate coins to be found in any of the stores. Evergreen, Rockland Kosher, Hatzlacha, All Fresh, and Wesley Kosher – none to be found. Hoping for a repeat of the Chanukah miracle the masses searched but, alas they did not find! There was a searing void in Monsey’s Chanukah observance.
I think most people agree that people shouldn’t air their dirty laundry in public, nor should they broadcast their personal issues to everyone they meet on the street. But the fact is that much of this country does just that. For some reason Americans, and many Europeans, want everyone to know that there is something missing from their life, and they just can’t figure out what it is.
Some people wear their emotions on their sleeves. But Americans wear their biggest issue on their chest. It reads: “GAP”. Judging by the high numbers of depression and the fact that there aren’t enough therapists to go around, it’s clear that there is a GAP. But why does everyone else need to know about it?
There definitely seems to be a counter voice who replies to the GAP advertisers that they are out of their minds. Those people refer to our society as a “Banana Republic”.
The bottom line is that you can’t fill a spiritual GAP with physical objects or physical enjoyments!
We live in an extremely blessed society brimming with affluence and plenty. But all of the affluence in the world cannot grant a sense of fulfillment. What it does breed is a sense of entitlement and a lack of ability to deal with deficiencies and challenges, which only seek to further frustrate the desperate need to find fulfillment.  
There’s no doubt about it. There’s something missing in the hearts and souls of so many today and they can’t seem to satiate it. The more people try to quell that inner pining with “stuff” and “fun”, the more elusive the antidote to that GAP seems to be.
If we want to find something we are desperately looking for we should take an example from the Macaabees. They won incredible victories from implacable and superior foes, but that did not satisfy them. They re-entered the Bais Hamikdash and searched, pined, and yearned to fulfill the long forsaken mitzvah in perfect purity. It was only when they were able to do so that they rejoiced and felt fulfilled.
My Rebbe, Rabbi Berel Wein, quips that the Jewish heart is always searching and pursuing. The only question is what it is that he chooses to pursue and search for. Life is hardly perfect and there are always GAPSs. The defining question is: which GAPs does one chose to focus on. Does he search for the missing jar of pure oil or is he busy searching for the missing chocolate coins? The problem is that the chocolate coins will do little to satisfy the inner yearning of the lofty Jewish heart and soul.
The light of the Menorah must continue to fill the GAPs within us long after they have burned out.

Shabbat Shalom & Good Shabbos,
            R’ Dani and Chani Staum     


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